Sex Doll FAQ - 100 Questions Answered

A sex doll is a life-size companion made of medical-grade silicone or TPE over a fully articulated metal skeleton. Modern dolls have realistic skin texture, human proportions and three usable openings (vaginal, anal, oral). They range from compact torsos to hyper-realistic, fully customizable companions — see our full collection.

Surprisingly close. TPE and platinum silicone are engineered to mimic the softness and bounce of human skin, and the steel skeleton moves like real joints. Warmth is the main difference — solved with a heating system, a heated blanket, or a warm bath before use. Most first-time owners say the realism exceeds their expectations. Deep dive: how realistic are sex dolls, really?

Soft, smooth and slightly springy — TPE feels plush and warms up quickly to body temperature; silicone feels a touch firmer with ultra-fine skin detail. Weight is part of the realism too: a full-size doll has a substantial, human-like presence that pictures can't convey. We compared honestly: sex doll vs. real woman vs. fleshlight.

Under the skin sits a posable steel skeleton with engineered joints — you position the doll and she holds the pose. The openings are textured internal channels designed for use with water-based lubricant. Optional upgrades add standing feet, internal heating, moaning sounds or even AI conversation. Curious about the oral function? Read our guide.

Each doll starts as an artist-sculpted mold. The factory casts TPE or silicone around a hand-assembled steel skeleton, then finishing artists apply makeup, implant or attach hair, and detail the skin by hand. That's why made-to-order dolls take a few weeks — every doll is essentially handcrafted.

For most owners, yes: a doll is a one-time purchase that lasts years with basic care — always available, zero pressure, no risk of STIs. Compared to years of other adult products or dating costs, owners typically consider a quality doll one of the best purchases they've made. More: the real benefits of owning a doll.

Top-tier silicone dolls from brands like Irontech, Climax Doll or SE Doll — with hand-painted skin texture, implanted hair and articulated fingers — are currently as real as it gets. Add a robotic or AI head and you get eye contact, conversation and moaning on top. See the ranking: the 5 most realistic dolls in the world.

Sailors on months-long voyages in the 17th century sewed the first improvised companions from cloth — the idea is centuries old. The modern era began in the 1990s with artist-made silicone dolls, and today's brands have turned them into high-tech, hyper-realistic companions.

You're paying for materials and handwork: 30+ kg of body-safe silicone or TPE, a full steel skeleton, artist-applied makeup and hair — plus mold development and quality control. That's also why suspiciously cheap "deals" on marketplace sites are almost always scams or knock-offs. We keep prices fair by shipping directly from authorized factories. Why owners say it pays off anyway: 5 long-term benefits.

Not at all. We ship male dolls to female buyers, dolls to couples who use them together, and torsos to first-timers of every orientation. Fantasy niches like furry and anime have their own passionate communities, too. Proof: the best sex dolls for women.

TPE (thermoplastic elastomer) is softer, bouncier and noticeably cheaper — the most popular choice. Silicone is firmer, holds finer skin detail, is easier to clean and fully heat-resistant. Browse TPE dolls and silicone dolls to compare. Full comparison: our TPE vs. silicone guide.

TPE is a body-safe blend of plastic and rubber that feels remarkably like soft skin. It stores warmth well, so the doll quickly takes on your body heat during use — one reason TPE has become the most-used doll material worldwide. Unsure which to pick? Ask us — we'll advise honestly.

Neither is "better", they serve different priorities. Pick TPE for maximum softness, jiggle and value. Pick silicone for ultra-realistic detail, easy cleaning, heat resistance (hot baths are fine) and longevity. Many experienced owners end up with a silicone head on a TPE body — the best of both. Shortlist: the best TPE dolls.

For touch, TPE — it's softer and moves more like flesh. For looks, silicone — it holds finer pores, veining and painted detail. "Realistic" depends on whether your priority is what you feel or what you see; that's the honest answer most shops won't give you.

At the same size they're similar, with silicone slightly heavier per litre. Weight is driven far more by doll height and body type than by material. If weight matters to you, choose a smaller full-size doll (140–150 cm) or a torso — realism without the 40 kg.

Silicone wins on longevity: it tolerates heat, resists stains and keeps its shape for many years. TPE lasts a long time too — typically 3–8 years depending on care — but needs a bit more attention (regular powdering, no hot water, careful storage). Either way, care matters more than material.

Quality dolls from authorized factories have at most a faint, neutral scent for the first days that airs out quickly. A strong chemical smell is the classic sign of cheap counterfeit material — one more reason to buy only certified brand dolls.

Yes — the TPE and platinum-cure silicone used by our partner factories are non-toxic, hypoallergenic and phthalate-free, the same material classes used in medical devices and kitchenware. Combined with water-based lube and normal cleaning, they're completely skin-safe.

We don't currently ship material samples, but every product page shows real factory photos, and our team will happily send extra close-ups or videos of a specific doll's skin texture before you order. Our customer reviews include real-life impressions, too.

A hybrid pairs a silicone head (crisper facial detail, easier makeup) with a TPE body (softer feel, lower price). It's a popular sweet spot: photorealistic face, plush body, moderate cost. Many brands in our shop offer exactly this combination — check the material notes on each product page.

Entry-level torsos start around $300–600, quality full-size TPE dolls run $800–1,800, and premium full-silicone or robotic dolls range $2,000–4,000+. Every price includes free worldwide shipping — there are no surprise costs at checkout. Full breakdown: what sex dolls really cost.

Size, material and handwork. A 158 cm full-silicone doll contains several times the material and finishing hours of a small torso. Implanted hair, articulated fingers, standing feet, heating and AI heads all add production steps. You're seeing honest manufacturing differences, not marketing.

From a vendor who can prove authenticity — this industry is full of grey-market copies cast from stolen molds. We publish our brand authorization certificates, a transparency report, and reviews on independent platforms, so you don't have to take our word for it. Also read: the best doll brands & manufacturers.

Three proofs: we're officially authorized by our brands (see the certificates), your doll ships directly from the original factory, and you receive photos of your exact doll before dispatch. Copies simply can't pass those three checks.

Yes — most dolls offer options for skin tone, eye color, wig, breast type (solid/hollow/gel), standing feet, heating, moaning and more, all selectable on the product page. Want something not listed? Message us — we can request almost any factory option for you.

Yes, on request — factory photos of your exact doll before dispatch, not stock images. You confirm she looks right, then we ship. It's one of our strongest quality-control steps and a highlight our reviewers mention often.

No. Creating a doll of a real, identifiable person requires that person's written consent — that's a legal and ethical line we don't cross. What we can do: help you combine existing heads, bodies and options to get very close to your ideal type.

Start with a torso ($300–600) if you want low weight, easy storage and a small commitment — or a 140–158 cm TPE doll if you want the full experience right away. Both give you the realistic feel; the difference is size, weight and budget. Start here: our beginner buying guide and how to choose the right doll.

Yes — our male collection includes full-size male dolls and torsos with realistic attachments, popular with women and couples alike. Male heads and custom options work the same way as for female dolls. Our picks: the best male sex dolls.

Beyond realistic humans, we carry fantasy dolls (elves, demons, vampires), furry companions with animal features, and anime/hentai-style dolls with stylized faces. Same body-safe materials and skeletons — just built for different dreams. Rankings: best furry, best anime & best plush dolls.

Credit and debit cards (Visa, Mastercard, Amex), Klarna, and PayPal (including Pay in 4). All card payments run through Shopify's PCI-certified checkout — we never see or store your card details.

Yes — choose Klarna at checkout to split your purchase, or select PayPal (Pay in 4): we send you a personal PayPal payment link within 24 hours, and you pick the Pay-in-4 option there. A premium doll can cost less per day than a coffee.

Just "SND" — three neutral letters. No "sex", no "doll", no product names. Nobody reading your statement will know what you bought.

Yes. Checkout runs on Shopify's encrypted, PCI-DSS-certified infrastructure — the same system securing millions of stores. We've processed orders for 1,000+ customers with a 4.9/5 rating — see our verified customer reviews and transparency report.

Select PayPal at checkout and we'll email you payment instructions — you send the amount with your order number as reference, we confirm, and production starts. For Pay in 4, we send a personal PayPal link within 24 hours instead. The account name you'll see is "SND Felix Hesse", our founder.

No — every doll is made or reserved for you personally, so we need payment upfront like all doll vendors. What protects you instead: our money-back guarantee, pre-shipment photos of your doll and verifiable reviews.

For the USA, UK and EU: yes — the price you see is final, with customs and taxes pre-paid by us. For a few countries (Canada, Australia, Norway, etc.) upfront payment isn't possible; there we co-pay up to 50% of any duty (max $200) and handle the customs process for you.

None. Free shipping, taxes included (US/UK/EU), no processing fees, no surcharges. The checkout total is what you pay — period.

Yes — you have 24 hours after ordering to change or cancel free of charge. Just message us within that window and we'll adjust or refund your order in full. After 24 hours your doll goes into production or gets reserved at the warehouse, so changes then depend on how far along she is — contact us anyway and we'll always look for a fair solution. Details: shipping & refunds.

We run seasonal sales and stock clearances — check the sale collection and subscribe to our newsletter. Fair warning: shops offering "70% off" on dolls year-round are usually selling counterfeits; real factories can't sustain those prices.

Stock dolls from our USA/EU warehouses: 7–14 days. Standard made-to-order dolls: around 6 weeks (each doll is handcrafted for you). Plush and specialty items: 1–5 months. You'll get a tracking number 3–4 days after dispatch.

Yes — free worldwide shipping on every doll, via UPS or FedEx with full tracking. For US, UK and EU customers, customs and taxes are pre-paid too, so the checkout price is genuinely final.

Completely. Your doll arrives in a plain brown box with zero branding — no logos, no product names, nothing on the outside. The courier has no idea what's inside. See exactly what the box looks like on our transparency page.

The contents are declared neutrally as "Mannequin" — accurate for customs purposes and completely non-embarrassing. Combined with the plain box and the neutral "SND" bank statement, no step of the process reveals what you ordered.

UPS and FedEx worldwide — both provide reliable tracking and delivery-date scheduling. With UPS "My Choice" (free) you can even redirect or reschedule your delivery so it arrives exactly when it suits you.

Stock dolls ship from our warehouses in the EU and USA (7–14 days). Made-to-order dolls ship directly from the original brand factory after production and quality control — that's how we guarantee authenticity and keep prices fair.

We ship worldwide, with a few exceptions where local law prohibits importing sex dolls. If you're unsure about your country, ask us before ordering — we know the import rules for practically every destination.

Yes — you'll receive a UPS/FedEx tracking number 3–4 days after dispatch, and tracking also syncs with your account on our site. During production of a custom doll we're happy to send status updates and factory photos on request.

Yes. Once you have your tracking number you can contact the courier directly (or use UPS My Choice) to pick a delivery day that suits you or redirect to a pickup point. Address changes before dispatch are easiest — just message us.

The courier leaves a notice and retries, or you can redirect the box to a UPS/FedEx pickup point and collect it yourself — many customers prefer that for privacy. The box is heavy (a full-size doll ships at 30–45 kg), so plan to have it delivered where you can handle it.

Yes — owning an adult sex doll is legal in the USA, UK, EU and most of the world. A small number of countries prohibit importing them entirely; we don't ship to those. This is general information, not legal advice, but we've shipped to thousands of customers without issues.

Compact adult dolls and torsos with clearly adult proportions are legal in most countries. Childlike dolls are illegal in many jurisdictions — and we categorically do not sell them. Every doll in our shop depicts an adult; that's a hard line for us and our authorized brands. Compact done right: the best small sex dolls.

18 or older, no exceptions. Our products, site and marketing are strictly for adults.

Not through us. Plain brown box, "Mannequin" customs declaration, "SND" on your bank statement, and we never sell or share customer data. The only person who knows is you — see our transparency page for the full discretion breakdown.

We store only what's needed to fulfill your order, protected under GDPR-grade EU privacy law (we're a German-run company). No data sales, no marketing lists you didn't join, deletion on request — details in our privacy policy.

For the USA, UK and EU: yes, and we pre-clear customs for you. Some countries (e.g. certain Middle Eastern and Southeast Asian states) prohibit import — we'll tell you honestly if yours is one of them before you pay. Ask us if unsure.

Customs authorities can inspect any international shipment — that's normal and rare. If it happens, they see a mannequin-declared figure, reseal the box and send it on. For US/UK/EU orders we pre-pay duties, so there's no customs letter or pickup hassle for you.

A short list where sex dolls are prohibited or import is impractical — including some Gulf states and a few others with strict morality laws. Rules change, so the reliable way is to ask us about your country; we check current regulations before you order.

Yes — the same rules as regular sex dolls apply. The added electronics (heating, sensors, AI conversation) make no legal difference in the USA, UK or EU. Browse our sex robot collection to see what's possible.

Every step: neutral "SND" billing, encrypted checkout, no-name packaging, mannequin customs declaration, courier pickup-point delivery if you prefer, and a support team that never sends revealing emails. Discretion is a core product feature for us, not an afterthought.

Unbox her on a soft surface, attach the head and wig, and let her warm to room temperature. Use plenty of water-based lubricant, start with the position that feels most natural (usually her on her back), and take your time. Clean the used channels afterwards — that's the whole ritual. Step-by-step: how to have the best doll experience.

Yes — a full steel skeleton with engineered joints sits under the soft skin, modeled on human anatomy. It's what lets your doll hold poses, sit, kneel and (with the standing-foot option) stand upright, while keeping the body flexible and lifelike.

Very — the articulated skeleton allows most human positions: lying, kneeling, sitting, standing (with standing feet), legs raised or spread. Joints are firm on purpose so poses hold. Avoid extreme over-stretching beyond human range; that's the one real limit.

Only with the standing-foot option, which reinforces the feet with small studs or internal bolts — select it on the product page if you want her displayable upright or standing positions during use. Without it, standing damages the feet over time.

Practically everything a human partner could do: missionary, doggy, cowgirl (with support), standing (with standing feet), plus oral and anal use. The skeleton holds each pose hands-free. Start simple; you'll quickly learn how she moves best. Illustrated: the 6 best positions to try.

Water-based only. Silicone- and oil-based lubes chemically damage TPE and silicone skin over time. Any quality water-based lube works perfectly and washes out easily — we recommend keeping a large bottle with your doll accessories.

Silicone dolls: yes, including warm baths. TPE dolls: lukewarm water only — heat above ~35°C can deform the material, and never submerge the head (for either material). A shared warm shower is many owners' favorite pre-warming trick for silicone dolls.

Four rules: no oil- or silicone-based lubes, no hot water on TPE, no dark clothing that can stain (test first), and no extreme joint over-stretching. Add regular cleaning and proper storage, and your doll will stay beautiful for years — full details in our care guide. Learn from others: 5 mistakes that ruined a doll.

Torsos work exactly like full dolls — same materials, same internal channels, same cleaning — just lighter (2–15 kg) and easier to position, store and hide. That's why we recommend torsos as the ideal first doll.

Torsos: 2–15 kg. Compact dolls (100–140 cm): 12–25 kg. Full-size dolls (150–170 cm): 28–45 kg. Remember: a doll feels heavier than the number because she's dead weight. If lifting is a concern, size down — a 148 cm doll offers full realism at manageable weight.

Rinse used channels with warm (not hot) water and mild antibacterial soap after each use — a vaginal irrigator makes it a 2-minute job. Wipe the skin with a damp cloth, pat dry, and powder TPE occasionally with cornstarch. Full walkthrough: our cleaning & maintenance guide.

Used channels: after every session. Full body wash: every 2–4 weeks or when visibly dusty. TPE re-powdering: monthly, to keep the skin dry and silky. It sounds like work but takes minutes — owners quickly build a routine.

The steps are the same; the rules differ. TPE: lukewarm water only, no alcohol or harsh cleaners, regular cornstarch powdering. Silicone: tolerates warmer water and gentle disinfectants, no powdering needed. Both: mild soap, soft cloths, never machine-dry anything.

Easiest of all — carry it to the sink or shower, flush the channels with warm soapy water, rinse, towel-pat, and air-dry standing upright on a towel. The low weight is exactly why torsos are the low-maintenance choice.

Alcohol, acetone, bleach, silicone-based cleaners, oil-based soaps and anything abrasive — all of them degrade doll skin. Stick to mild antibacterial soap, water and dedicated toy cleaners. When in doubt, test on a hidden spot (inner thigh) first.

Pat dry with a soft towel — never rub hard, never use a hairdryer on hot. Once fully dry, dust TPE skin lightly with cornstarch (or talc-free baby powder) using a large makeup brush. It keeps the skin non-sticky, silky and fresh-smelling.

Remove the wig, wash it separately with mild shampoo in cool water, air-dry on a wig stand, then brush gently from the ends up. Never wash hair on the head — water inside the head cavity is the enemy. A spare wig instantly changes her whole look, too.

Don't panic: remove the head, take out the eyes if possible, and let it air-dry upside down for 24–48 hours in a ventilated room. Avoid heat. To prevent it: never submerge the head and keep hair-washing strictly off-head.

The skeleton is maintenance-free — no oiling, no tightening. Just avoid forcing joints past natural human range and don't leave limbs in extreme positions for weeks. If a joint ever loosens noticeably, contact us; most issues have simple fixes.

TPE: minor surface cuts can be healed nearly invisibly with TPE repair glue (a few drops, 24 h cure). Stains: dedicated TPE/silicone stain remover cream lifts most clothing dye within days. Both products are cheap — and we'll gladly walk you through any repair step by step.

With basic care: TPE dolls typically 3–8 years, silicone dolls 5–10+ years. The biggest lifespan factors are cleaning, storage position and avoiding stains — not usage frequency. Heads, wigs and even whole body parts can be replaced, so a well-kept doll effectively never "expires".

Best: lying flat on a soft, breathable surface (memory foam, blanket) in neutral position, out of direct sunlight — under the bed or in a closet works perfectly. Also good: hanging kits that suspend the doll by the neck bolt in a wardrobe. Avoid tight bending and pressure points. Full walkthrough: 9 steps to store & hide discreetly.

The classics: a lockable storage box or flight case under the bed, the original shipping box in a closet, or a hanging kit behind clothes in a wardrobe. Torsos fit in a gym bag or drawer. Combined with our discreet delivery, nobody needs to know anything. Detailed: our discreet storage guide.

For hours, yes; for weeks, no. Long-term pressure flattens TPE (silicone is more forgiving) and stresses joints. Store her lying flat or hanging with limbs neutral, and she'll keep her shape for years.

Check her measurements on the product page — most 155–165 cm dolls wear standard women's XS–S with a bra size matching her chest. Petite and Asian-market sizes often fit best. Pro tip: buy a size up for easy dressing; tight clothes are hard to pull over TPE skin. Styling ideas: our doll styling & photography guide.

Yes — dark, cheap fabrics (especially new jeans and black underwear) can transfer dye into TPE and silicone. Wash dark clothes several times before use, prefer light colors, and never store her dressed in unwashed dark fabrics. Stain remover cream fixes accidents, but prevention is easier.

Yes, carefully: stick-on jewelry, clip-ons and water-transfer tattoos are completely safe. Real piercings work in TPE but create permanent holes, and ink can migrate — so we recommend the removable route. Some factories also offer piercings and permanent makeup as a factory option.

Refresh instead of replace: a new head, wig, eyes or makeup gives her a completely new identity for a fraction of a doll's price. That modularity is one of the most underrated features of quality dolls.

Remove the head and wig (keep or sell them — heads are reusable), then the doll can go to bulky waste like any large plastic item; the steel skeleton is even recyclable at metal collection points. Wrap her discreetly. Never resell a used doll for hygiene reasons.

Substantially, yes: deep clean, re-powder, stain treatment, new wig and eyes, repair glue for small cuts, a fresh head if you want a new face. A weekend of care makes a 3-year-old doll look close to new — our guide covers every step.

A sex doll with robotics: moving features, sensors, heating and increasingly AI conversation. Today's sex robots can hold eye contact, moan responsively, warm to body temperature and chat — the doll's realism plus interaction. Ranking: the best sex robots right now.

Current AI heads hold spoken conversations, remember context, flirt, moan in response to touch and movement, and sync facial expressions to speech. It's early-days technology — think engaging companion, not science-fiction android — but it's advancing every year.

Robotic and AI-enhanced dolls in our shop range from roughly $2,500 to $6,000+ depending on features — moving eyes, heating, sensors, conversation AI. A regular doll can often be upgraded later with an AI head, which is the budget-friendly entry into robotics.

Many models offer built-in body heating as a factory option — the doll warms to ~37°C body temperature. Alternatives: an insertable USB heating rod (cheap, effective for the channels) or simply an electric blanket for 30 minutes before use. Warmth transforms the realism.

A sensor-driven sound system: touch and movement trigger realistic moaning through a hidden speaker, with intensity that responds to you. It's available as a factory option on many dolls — surprisingly effective for immersion, and completely silent when switched off.

Yes — heads attach with a standard neck bolt system, and swapping takes under a minute. Most brands' heads fit their own bodies interchangeably (and often across compatible skin tones). One body, several heads = several companions in one closet: browse heads.

Head: screw or click onto the neck bolt (included adapter). Wig: sits like a cap, optionally secured with bobby pins or velcro strips. Eyes: gently pull the eyelids apart and reposition — they're soft-socket mounted. All three take seconds once you've done them twice.

Yes — heads are sold individually as upgrades, replacements or spare "personalities" for a body you already own. Check neck-connector compatibility (we'll help if unsure) and pick a matching skin tone.

Slightly: keep electronics strictly away from water (clean around them with a damp cloth), charge per the manual, and store at room temperature. The body cleans like any doll. In exchange you get heating, sound and conversation — most owners find the trade-off easily worth it.

Rapidly better AI conversation, more facial movement, full-body sensors and app integration are all in active development at brands like Irontech and AI-Tech. Our take: buy the doll you'll love now — heads and tech modules are upgradeable, so your doll can evolve with the technology.